Marriage, or a stable relationship, is a serious commitment, and once the honeymoon period is over, many couples find their relationship not as satisfying as before. Routine and boredom may be a part of the problem, but the truth is, that there are several common mistakes that you can and should avoid if you want your marriage to be stable and happy. So here’s a few simple tips.
You and your spouse are two different people, with different characters, interests and tastes. Respect each other’s decisions and choices, even in domestic issues such as choosing the menu. Speaking from experience, forcing your opinion on your partner won’t change his, but will definitely annoy him/her.
Speak your mind instead of holding back your resentment. But when you happen to fight, try to avoid being defensive or throwing accusations. Explain your partner how you feel and why you feel that way, and ask him or her to do the same. Best speak calmly, but an occasional shouting match won’t ruin your relationship.
Everybody needs their space from time to time, whether it’s an occasional separate vacation, watching a game on TV or just reading quietly in your favorite armchair.
As for sex, this subject usually requires more than a few tips. The first thing you should remember is that if you want to change something in your sex life, you should say it, but without lecturing or reproaching. It’s a delicate matter, and you really don’t want to hurt him or her.
Fixing a relationship in trouble may need more than a short article. It’s perfectly fine to ask for help. If you don’t like the sound of marriage counseling, get a good book or an online-course, whatever fits you. Good luck!
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